If You’re Happy And You Know It, Welcome Adar.

But what if I’m not?

Photo by Ángel López on Unsplash

“How are you doing?” So many of you have asked. “I’m so sorry to hear about your loss,” or “How tragic,” so many of you have offered. Especially when you learn that my sister in law, Abby, was just a few days shy of turning 41 when she died. It truly has been heartbreaking.